Secret To Make Your Ex Return Your Call

December 11th, 2008 by Mike Tucker
Are there 'magic' words you can use
to get your ex to return your phone calls?

Sounds hard to believe but there ARE words
that will nearly cast a spell and make your ex
feel almost compelled to return your call.

Cool huh?...

I am going to share this with you because
this is one of the biggest questions I get
from the over 35,000 subscribers just
like you that are trying to put their relationship
back together.

So I am going to answer..."How do I get
my ex to return my phone call, text or IM?"

BUT...

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WARNING!
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In the Magic Of Making Up, I lay
out a complete strategy.

Visit Magic of Making Up Here

If you use this technique alone, without
an 'overall' plan or strategy...you may
damage your relationship more than if
they never returned your call.

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What NOT to Say!
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Before we get into the actual words, let's
go over what message almost NEVER
works.

and worse...

Puts you in an AWFUL 'psychological' position.

These usually fall into 2 categories.

The PLEAD- Where the message sounds like

"John, please, please call me. This is the 3rd
time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you."

And the EMERGENCY-

"Cindy, this is an emergency. Please call me
as soon as you get this."

Now, I think you can see what is wrong with
both of those approaches?

So, I won't go on and on...

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How To Use Curiosity & Self Interest
To Your Advantage
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Two of the most powerful forces in
the human mind are

*Curiosity &
*Self Interest

And here's the BIG SECRET!

When you combine the two, you
have a recipe that WILL work 'magic'

So...

Let's look at what you can say
that works nearly EVERY TIME.

In a friendly tone:

"Hi John. It's Cindy. I wanted to let
you know I appreciate what you did for
me. Call me because I want to thank you
in person."

Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity
and self interest?

John will NOT be able to resist! "What did I do?"
"What does she appreciate?" he will be thinking. And
he feels good because it is a positive message.

Now...

Before you call you need to do the
"Set Up"...which is figuring out what
he/she did that you appreciate.

It can be any small thing...but needs to
be plausible.

But more importantly...

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2nd WARNING!
************

Please have an underlying strategy
like I lay out in the Magic Of Making
Up System BEFORE you call.

Visit Magic of Making Up Here

If you apply this technique with
no underlying strategy and they
call you back you can do more
DAMAGE than good if you do not
handle it correctly.

Okay?

What I am saying is...

What you do before, during and
after you get them to return your
call is MORE important than getting
them to return your call.

Make sense?

Have a PLAN!==>
Visit Magic of Making Up Here

Rooting For You,
T Dub

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10 Signs Your Ex Wants You Back

August 15th, 2008 by Mike Tucker

You might have broken up but that doesn’t mean your relationship is over just yet. So how do you know if they want you back?

Signs Your Ex Wants You Back

- Makes effort not just to improve him or herself but let you know they are doing their best to make themselves more attractive to you. This includes working though inner issues, improving personal appearance, getting a better job or anything to become more financially stable, committing to spiritual growth, becoming more social etc.

- If your ex wants you back, you can tell because they don’t act the same with you, or there being friendlier. There starting to act the same as when he first wanted you.

- Your ex has not formed any new relationships.

- Your ex has kept the lines of communication open and reminds you that they are open.

- Your ex has told you about or invited you to situations that bring you together

- They have mentioned efforts they have made or are making to be a better person comments about what you wear and how you look

- They frequently call you

- Frequently tries to catch your attention or spark a conversation

- Follows you around

- Can’t keep his eyes off you!

Now of course those are just some of the many signs your ex wants you back. Even if you have not gotten any of the signs listed above. It still might not be over. It could be too early after the breakup to have received any signs yet.

Find more Signs Your Ex Wants Your Back!

Hope That Helps and Good Luck!

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